4 Different Ways to Have Casual Sex

4 Different Ways to Have Casual Sex

There are so many different kinds of sexual relationships that a man and a woman can have with each other. They range from one extreme to the other – from a committed monogamous relationship to a sexless friendship.

Many think terms like “casual sex” and “sexual hookup” mean “one-night stand.” However, this greatly oversimplifies the nature of casual sex in the modern world. In reality, casual sex comes in a variety of flavors.

Booty Call.

This is sex with a friend-with-benefits or a stranger that’s arranged via a phone call or text message made after 11 p.m.—usually, because there are no better prospects and/or you’ve been drinking. The only way that booty calls meaningfully differ from one-night stands is in the frequency with which hookups occur. However, booty calls who repeat their encounters with a great frequency usually develop some degree of intimacy and may go on to become something more.

Friends With Benefits.

Unlike F-buddies, who have a friendship that develops out of sex, FWB consists of a pre-existing friendship that turns into a sexual relationship. The FWB relationship has little to no expectations of commitment attached to it, and it always involves sex. Sex is a big part of being friends with benefits, but so is the fun, social aspect, don’t forget.

One Night Stand.

Also known as “hit it and quit it.” This involves a one-time sexual encounter in which there is no personal disclosure, relationship communication, or friendship. There is no expectation of anything beyond one night, sounds easy, right?

Comfort Sex.

That one person you always end up going back to, asking to come over late at night, yeah that’s your comfort sex buddy. A bad day at work, a terrible breakup, a tragic pet death are all excellent reasons to have comfortable sex. I’m warning you, while it may feel good at the moment, comfort sex, like comfort food, will usually make you feel worse after it’s all said and done. Sometimes a pint of Ben & Jerry’s will do the trick.

No matter what type of sex – always remember to be safe!

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Dating Advice

The Best Dating Advice For Women

There are thousands of magazines, blogs, shows, and books all dedicated to helping women with the dating game. Most of these publications end up flat out contradicting each other which leads women to be confused and at a loss about what advice to trust. Look no further ladies! As veterans in this field, and after doing our fair amount of research, we have compiled the best dating advice for women that you will ever read.

1. Men communicate differently than women.

Communication scholars have published research over and over again for decades that prove this communication phenomenon. Here’s the deal: men are task-oriented beings, and so is their communication. What does this mean? They look at communication as a means to solve something, to fix something, to set up plans. Women are exactly the opposite. They love to talk about just about anything, and they see communicating about relationships and love as a crucial and necessary component to dating. This naturally causes an issue when a woman wants their man to be more “lovey lovey” or more verbal with their affection. Men are there thinking; I don’t want to talk about our relationship unless something is wrong while women think something is wrong if we don’t talk about our relationship. So ladies, keep this in mind from now on. It’s not his fault- it’s just the way men are.

2. Don’t think you can change him.

Women sadly fall into the trap that they think that they can change a man to become “boyfriend material” or mold them to become their perfect match. This is never the case ladies; you will never have positive consequences come of this. The bottom line is if you’re not happy with the full person that the man you’re seeing is, deal with it or move on. You’re totally wasting your time trying to change him.

3. Put yourself first.

Women are natural caregivers and often fall into the habit of pleasing everyone around them. While this might benefit others, it often means that the woman forgets to take care of herself. Women try so hard to please their men that sometimes as a result, they get walked all over and allow themselves to be treated like crap. This is a bad pattern that happens more frequently the more you do it. Solution? Constantly check in with yourself to self-reflect and see if you’re truly feeling valued, healthy, and happy. If not, take a step further and figure out what is causing that. If it’s your relationship, fix it and change your way of doing things.

4. Ignore everything they say and only pay attention to what they do.

The age-old saying “Words speak louder than words” is famous for a reason: it’s true, and it works. Men are known for always making empty promises and coming up with insane explanations and excuses. Stop letting this slide and instead, take his actions as the actual determination of whether or not you should move forward or dump his butt.  Ready to find your next boyfriend?  Head over to cupid.ly and download the #1 rated new dating app for free!

Dating Tips

6 Best Dating Tips For Men

Dating is weird, to say the least. Let’s face it, when it comes to meeting the next Mr or Ms. Right, we could all do with a little help, especially the guys, am I, right girls? Guys here is how to score the ‘one.’

Be True to Yourself.

Present yourself as the same person online and offline. Women are pleasantly surprised to meet a man who acts like he says he acts. Trust is necessary and starts with being honest about superficial things (i.e. height, appearance, age, interests, etc.).

Obviously, be a Gentleman.

Treat a woman the way you’d like a man to treat your sister, daughter or someone you care about; this means dating responsibly. Be a man of your word. Be well-mannered, courteous, and respectful in your words, behaviors, and actions. Treat her how you would want to be treated, times ten.

Don’t make her ask you out.

Be the one to ask her out first. Though women lead every day in their professional lives, many of us prefer men to still make the first move romantically. If you’re interested in her, ask her out. Whatever you do, do not be creepy about it. For example, do not say “ Hey sexy, I love the way your body looks” in your first message to her.

Be Thoughtful.

Always show consideration and care to a woman’s feelings, even if you don’t mean it. Have you ever heard of, “fake it till you make it?” A woman of worth must feel connected to a man to keep a positive momentum going. When a woman doesn’t hear from you between dates, we get annoyed, and that can only lead to no good. We need and crave attention, so give it to her.


What you place your attention on becomes important in your life. Keep track of the amount of time and energy you spend working, with the amount of time you are with you your friends, dating, etc. The bottom line, dating takes time, effort, and energy. Balance your life so that you’re able to work well, date well, and spend time with friends. When your life is in balance, life flows better.

Be Patient.

Simply to put it… When it comes to get started with adult dating, patience is a virtue.